We all have heard the term 'marriage of convenience'. Lets take a closer look at the meaning of the word convenience. According to the American Heritage Dictionary the word convenience means suitability to one's purpose or needs or personal comfort or advantage. Therefore if marriage is entered into solely for convenience there is any place set aside for commitment, loyalty or love. The marriage has been established for selfish reasons only, given no thought to the other person's needs or desires.

Instead only fulfilling or attending to one's own wishes. A marriage of convenience is a marriage that will eventually crumble lacking the foundation it needs to stand. Some would argue the point believing because there is no strings attached it will be a marriage of freedom to do whatever one wants without consequences. Superficially it may appear as such but emotionally over time it will began to tear down one or both partners having a dramatic effect that will last a life time.

We as humans beings need love and security. A feeling of belonging is a natural part of every individual and no matter what society tells us about being independent and free, nothing can compensate for real love and stability. Having love and stability in our lives is much like water to our bodies. It is essential in order for us to be well rounded individuals. A marriage of convenience in not a secure, loving and caring form of a relationship. Think of it as a dream home being built. The frame is there but isn't a lot still missing before it can be called a home?

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